Thursday, February 12, 2009

How to Win Love Back With Common Sense

How to win love back is a topic that I want
to talk about today. Too many people do
this all wrong. They think that they must
aggressively pursue their ex in order to get
him or her back. In fact, nothing could be
further from the truth. If you want to know
how to win love back, follow the advice in
this article as closely as possible.

The first thing you need to know in the how to
win love back arena is that you do not want to
chase your ex.

Too many guys think they must pursue their ex’s.
They send hundreds of texts, call at odd hours
of the day, and even stalk their ex girlfriend’s
home. They send flowers and gifts.

This is wrong, wrong, wrong because it makes you
look desperate. Women like Alpha males, not
sniveling guys they think are jokes. When you
appear desperate, your ex girlfriend will start
playing head games with you. She’ll let you come
over, and then invite a new guy over too. She’ll
pretend she’s interested only to go off in another
direction.

And, the more you fall into this trap, the more
games she’ll play. This is not the answer to how
to win love back.

Instead of chasing her and being desperate, you
need to play games with her that make her come
crawling to you.

When you are in a group that includes her, flirt
with every girl but her. If she has an enemy in
the group, pay special attention to that girl.
By ignoring your ex, you make her want to come
back to you. You are reminding her of all of your
charms, but not applying them to her.

It’s a good idea to go out on a date with one of
her close friends. Send your ex a text message
saying “now that we’re just friends, I wanted your
opinion on something. Where should I take Mary to
dinner after the big game?” That is sure to make
your ex girlfriend jealous and it’s one of the
tricks for how to win love back.

Even if you don’t want to play head games with your
ex, there is one thing that you can do that may help
you in the how to win love back arena. That is, you
should be happy.

Girls like to date happy guys. If you work on you
rather than focus on her, you have a much better
chance getting her back.

Go work out at the gym. Hang with your buddies.
Get involved in a hobby you never had time for when
you were dating her. Go out on dates. Even if you
have to fake being happy initially, you will soon
realize that you really are happy.

This way, whether you get the girl back or you move
on, you will be a happier person.

And, that is my advice for how to win love back.

1 comment:

Steve said...

I could not agree more. I tended to do all the opposites of what I should have been doing after breaking up. I now realize that in my past relationship, the only thing that saved me was my ability to gain the confidence, step back and just concentrate on being happy with myself. The more I started doing that, the more curious my ex became. We then started to reconcile successfully!