Thursday, May 28, 2009

How to Win Love Back and Have Your Ex Fall in Love with You All Over Again

What can you do to win love back? Getting your
ex to fall in love with you all over again can
be a challenge. The truth is that there are
reasons that he or she called it off. If you can
figure out what the reasons are, you have a good
chance to win love back.

If you need to win love back because the other
person couldn’t trust you anymore, you will have
to proceed slowly. If you messed up and fooled
around with someone else, you have to prove that
you can be loyal again.

First, you must be certain that you want your ex
back. What is going to keep you from straying
again? Could it be that the reason you fooled
around is because you weren’t 100 percent sure
you wanted your ex? If this is the case, are
you now sure that you want the relationship to
go forward?

If you are sure, then you need to apologize.
Don’t think that this will get you very far
when it comes to win love back, but it is a
necessary first step.

Then, you must give your ex time to heal.
Don’t push him or her to resolve the situation.
During this time, you don’t want to play any head games
that might give your ex the feeling that you can’t
be trusted. You probably shouldn’t date other
people during this time. You should be humble.

Be a great friend to her. Do the things that made
her fall in love with you in the first place. If
she still has feelings for you, being a good friend
can help her pave over the infidelity.

But there are reasons besides cheating that a person
dumps their lover. For instance, they may be bored
with the relationship. In this case, if you want to
win love back, you have to spice things up.

When your ex was first attracted to you, you were
probably not complacent in the dating game. You
planned each date carefully, dressed up for the events,
and brought little gifts to him or her from time to
time. As the relationship developed, you may have
gotten sloppy about it.

If you think the reason you are now in the position where
you need to win love back is that you let the relationship
get boring, try spicing things up.

If you meet up again “just as friends” do something different
and exciting. Meet at a wine bar instead of a pool hall.
Go out for fondue or other “interesting” food.
Go to a concert with music that she likes.
Don’t just sit around the house watching football or
American Idol all of the time.

If your ex is bored with you, win love back by becoming more
interesting in your personal life as well. Take a course or
join up with an interesting group. Start skydiving. Show
your ex that you can be a lot of fun.

The final reason that I’m going to discuss here about why a
break up happens is that you were just “too into” your ex.
He or she didn’t have any room to breathe. They may still
like you. Heck, they may still love you, but they didn’t
find any room for themselves in the relationship.

If this is the case, you have to give your ex some space.
The worst thing you can do is send them 100 text messages a
day or call crying at 3:00 a.m. asking why the break up
happened. You win love back by backing off. When you see
your ex, be casual. Don’t be needy.

There are, of course, many other reasons why your ex could
have broken up with you. When you analyze why the break up
happened, you can use the space thereafter to win love back
by making the necessary changes.

You won’t win love back by continuing in your old habits.
But you should know that getting back together is possible.
You can win love back.

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