Get Back Together With Ex Don’t Write Off the Relationship Just Because She Dumped You

Do you want to get back together with ex?
Don’t write off the relationship just because
she dumped you.

Women are fickle creatures. In 3 out of every
4 break ups, it is the woman who calls it off.
But, many times they’re open to re-establishing
the relationship. Breaking up may not have been
a well thought out decision, but they are loathe
to admit they are wrong and come back to you
themselves.

Part of your job is to figure out what went wrong
and change it. If she was bored in the relationship,
you need to spice things up. If she was looking for
a flashier guy, a makeover might be in order. And,
if you were too needy, you might just need to back
off for a time.

Right now, if you want to get back together with ex,
you need to show her that you are exactly the kind
of guy she wants to date.

One of the ways to get back together with ex is to
show her that you are an in demand kind of guy.
Every girl says she wants to be unique. They look
for “unique” styles. But you will quickly notice
that what they really want is a “unique” look that
is just like all of their friends’ looks.

So, to become the in-demand guy, you have to start
dating in-demand girls. In fact, dating her close
friends will actually make her want to get back
together with you.

If you are uncomfortable dating people who might
continue to be in your life after you get back together
with your ex, you can at least flirt with them. When
you see your ex with a pack of her friends, don’t pay
any attention to her. Instead, lavish attention on her
friends. If she has a particularly plain friend, spend
the most time with her. That’s one way to get back
together with ex.

Look at how she reacts to you when other guys are around.
When someone puts you down, does she stand up for you?
That is a good sign that she is still into you and will
welcome you back into her life.

When you want to get back together with ex, you need to
realize that there is a new power relationship at play.
You no longer belong to each other exclusively. Instead,
you are two independent spheres rotating around the other.

Many guys don’t realize that this power shift has occurred.
While they are down in the dumps about the break up, they
don’t change their behavior pattern toward their ex. This
is a big mistake.

When you want to get back together with ex, you will take
advantage of the shift in power. You will woo her by
changing the things that she doesn’t like about you or the
relationship, become the in-demand guy that all girls want
to date, and be a little bit unavailable to her. If these
things don’t work, she probably has moved on and you won’t
have much hope of jump starting anything.

However, in almost all cases, because women are fickle
creatures, you can get back together with ex.

It's may seem hard to master, but if you read the
Magic Of Making Up you will understand, in depth how to
have her where you want her.