Avoiding A Love Break Up

If you’ve ever had your love break up you
know how painful it is. And if you thought
back after the relationship ended, you
probably saw all the signs that you didn’t
recognize before. If you’ll remember those
signs and keep them in mind, they can help
you prevent a break up in the future. And
they can also help you get back together
after a split.

One sure sign of impending love break up is
the lack of physical contact. This doesn’t
just mean sex. If your partner suddenly
stops having an interest in sex, that’s a
good sign that a break up is coming. But
the normal flow and rhythm of a relationship
has times when there’s lots of sex and times
when there’s not much. This is natural.

A love break up is probably on the horizon
though, if your partner stops holding your
hand for no apparent reason. Or he or she
stops putting an arm over your shoulder at
the movies or in public when he or she
always did it before. Any sudden changes like
not touching you much outside the bedroom when
your partner was always very affectionate
before could signal problems.

If it goes beyond not touching to the person
actually becoming uncomfortable at your touch,
then you definitely need to have a conversation
with your partner about what’s going on. Don’t
just assume that because your partner flinched
away from your touch that there’s about to be a
love break up, though. Many things can cause a
person to not want to be touched at any given
moment.

A person might have been thinking of something
else and been surprised or startled by the touch.
He or she might think that your touch signals that
it’s time to have sex, if you’re not very
affectionate except when you want to be intimate.
And maybe your partner isn’t in the mood for sex
now and chose to show you that by moving away from
your touch. That doesn’t mean you’re headed for a
love break up.

Your partner might simply not feel good. Every
change in a person’s behavior doesn’t signal an
impending love break up or even anything wrong
with the relationship. You have to watch them
closely for a while to determine if some behavior
is an occasional thing, something brought on only
during certain times, or if it’s a permanent part
of the person’s make up.

Catching your partner in lies, even what seem like
small and harmless ones, could be a sign of problems,
too. After all, if a lie is small and harmless, why tell
it in the first place? Where there’s one tiny lie, larger
and more damaging lies can grow. Don’t become
convinced it’s a love break up right away though.
People lie about many things that aren’t bad, like surprise
parties and reunions. Your partner might be trying to
keep a harmless and fun secret like that, instead of
scheming about a love break up.

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