Thursday, January 1, 2009

Dont Wait How To Get Over Someone Fast

When a relationship ends, especially if
you're not the one who ended it, how to
get over someone becomes very important.
It’s not always easy to get over a person
you’ve been with, though. If you’ve been
with that person for a very long time it’s
even harder. It might be pretty easy to get
over a relationship that’s lasted 3 months.
But if you've been with someone for 3 years,
it's hard to get over that person at all,
let alone get over them quickly.
Fortunately, there are some things you can
do
to speed up the process.

When you're wondering how to get over someone,
sit in a chair in your living room or bedroom,
wherever there’s a very strong sense of the
other person. Remove anything that reminds
you of that person a great deal. This isn't
always easy to do, but every little bit helps.
If you've bought a dog together, for instance,
of course you won’t want to get rid of the dog.
But anything your ex bought for you that’s on
display like a knick-knack or something
hanging on the wall would be a good thing to
remove for a while.

If you have lots of things that will remind you
of your ex, you're probably wondering how to get
over someone without making your rooms completely
bare. But even if you picked out practically
everything together, you don’t have to remove
everything to make this work. Just choose items
that have particularly strong memories.

Maybe you picked out the couch together, but it's
one of the throw pillows that you bought or the
figurine on the end table he or she gave you as a
gift that seems to make you feel sad when you look
at it. Remove those items and store them for a
while, just to make things easier on you.

If you’re having a really hard time and feel that
you can handle it, you can think of all your ex’s
bad qualities. Of all the methods of how to get
over someone
, this is the one where you actually
think of your ex the most, so if just the very
thought of them brings you to tears you might not
be ready for this step. Think of the things you
disliked the most about them. If you can’t thing
of anything, just move on. But most of us can come
up with a long list of things we dislike about
someone, especially if they were the ones to end
the relationship.

A popular method of how to get over someone is to
simply start dating again. Many people balk at
this idea—they think they still love the ex aren’t
ready. You can do this even if you’re still in
love with your ex. No one says you have to fall
in love anytime soon. But dating or even going
out with friends isn’t just how to get over
someone, it’s how to keep feeling sorry for your
self while you try.

Here is the Magic to it all

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