When You Have An Ex Boyfriend To Get Back

If you have an ex boyfriend to get back, you
might have already tried several things to
get him to come back to you. You might have
begged, pleaded, promised to change your ways,
and even gone so far as to break up a new
relationship he might be having. It’s important
to remember at all times how you appear to him.
It’s going to be hard to get him back if you
look somewhat childish or scheming.

Try to think of any behaviors like that you’ve
displayed since you broke up, and stop them now.
Whatever you’ve been doing obviously isn’t
working or you’d be back together already.
If you’ve been following him around and showing
up everywhere he appears out with friends or on a
date, your behavior probably seems more like that
of a stalker than someone who loves him. When you
have an ex boyfriend to get back, things you’re
doing to convince him to be with you might be the
things that are keeping him away.

Next time you end up in the same place together,
whether it’s a restaurant or a club, when you walk
in and see him, do acknowledge him. But instead of
going up to him and demanding his attention as you
might have done before, simply say hello and go about
your business in another part of the room, or explain
that since he’s there, you’ll leave to make him more
comfortable. Be nice and polite and simply go. If
nothing else, the change in your behavior will get
him thinking.

When you have an ex boyfriend to get back, doing what
isn’t expected is important if you’ve been trying
unsuccessfully for a while. If you’ve been calling
him 10 times a day, or even 3, stop. Call when you
really need something, not just to rehash why he should
take you back. If you don’t have reason to call, then
simply don’t call. After a week or so, give him a call
just to say hello and that you were thinking about him.
Ask if he’s doing all right, and a few simple questions
like that.

If he starts to sound suspicious wanting to know why you
really called and acting as if all this niceness is just
a prelude to your usual behavior, just assure him you
called because you missed him and wanted to check in on
him. Then say goodbye and end the call on a good note.
When you have an ex boyfriend to get back, you want him
to wonder at the end of such a conversation. He’ll wonder
why you didn’t beg or plead as usual, and what’s going on.


If you’re less comfortable with calling for such a thing,
mail him a card that simply says you’re thinking about him.
It’s important to give him the chance to make a move. When
you have an ex boyfriend to get back, you can’t smother him
with attention and affection but instead let him come after you.

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