Taking Steps To Get Girl Back

When you’ve broken up with someone you care
about you have a hard time thinking of
anything but how to get girl back. If you
truly want this to happen, you’ll probably
have to make some changes. Whatever happened
to cause the break up should be looked at.
Was it something you did, or didn’t do?
Is it something that you can still fix, or
is it too late?

If it was something you did or didn’t do and
you can fix it now, then fix it. Undo
something, or do something you should have
done already. Apologize and make amends.
This alone might not get girl back, but it’s
the first step on the path to getting her back.
If whatever happened can’t be fixed, then at the
very least make sure she knows that you’re sorry
and that you'd change what happened if you could.

Now that you’ve moved past what caused the break
up, the next step to get girl back is to make her
want you back. That sounds like common sense, but
so many people don’t do it. If the relationship
ended with her angry, then you have to show her
the you that makes her happy again. You’re going
to have to be especially patient and forgiving.
Be as sweet as you can possibly be when you talk
to her or see her.

Even if you’re angry at the time or you feel far
from happy, at least show her the most pleasant
side of yourself you can. Make her remember your
good qualities and what she liked about you when
you were happy. If she feels you have truly
apologized for what caused the break up and she
sees your sweet side again, you might be able to
get girl back.

It’s important to pay close attention when you see
or talk to her. Listen carefully and don’t interrupt.
Let her express herself without jumping in and
telling her how she ought to feel or what she ought
to do. You won’t get girl back by trying to boss
her around!

You also need to pay close attention to see if your
efforts are having an effect. Sometimes you can see
that she’s softening to you. She talks nicer when
she sees you, and you have been seeing her more often.
Maybe she even seeks you out more often than she did
before. Or she seeks you out now after ignoring you
for a long time. Your efforts to get girl back are
working!

Because she’s so impressed with how sweet you are,
she wants to be around you more. And that only reminds
her why she wanted to be with you in the first place.
Pay careful attention also if you suddenly stop seeing
her as much as before, or she becomes distant or angry
talking when you see her. That’s a good sign that
you’re pushing and she’s uncomfortable. Take a break
and you’ll have a better chance to get girl back.