Thursday, December 18, 2008

Advice on Relationships How to Keep a Woman Happy

Do you know how to keep a woman happy? Here is
some advice on relationships for men.

The first advice on relationships item I have for
you is to always be yourself. Many men don’t
feel that they are good enough to catch a beautiful,
sexy woman, so they put on a show. But a confident
man is the sexiest beast around. Have you ever
noticed that some of the ugliest guys have some
of the prettiest women? That is because they
display a level of confidence that is more
attractive to women than physical looks.

Next, you should do the little things. This means
offering to take her car in for an oil change or
giving her a bag of Jelly Bellies (her favorite
flavors) from time to time. Sometimes men think
in terms of “grand gestures,” when it is the little
things add up to long relationships.

This ties into the next piece of advice on
relationships: appreciate her. You shouldn’t
take her for granted. Let her know that you
value her.

Next up is not obviously looking at other women
when you are with her. Women think that you are
comparing her to the woman you’re looking at.
They don’t understand the whole concept of “the
day I stop looking is the day I die.” This comes
from the biological drive for monogamy in women.
Women are looking for a lifetime partner for a man
with whom they can raise children. They can’t help
it. That’s how evolution designed them. So minimize
the ogling, especially when she’s around.

You should try to make her laugh. While men list
good looks at the top of the things they need in a
woman, women list a man’s sense of humor. So, if
you want the relationship to last, keep her laughing.

The next bit of advice on relationships comes in
seeking common interests. It’s great if you got
together because of a hobby or an interest, but
it still helps when you take an interest in a long
standing passion of hers. If this means developing
an appreciation for foreign films, so be it. This
shows that you care about her and she’ll know you
are one in a million.

Once you get the girl, it may seem like you don’t
have to try anymore – at least as far as grooming
goes. And, while women are less sensitive to looks
than men are, they still like a man who makes an
attempt. So, shave on weekends. Keep in touch with
the latest fashion trends for men. In short, don’t
get sloppy just because you’ve landed her. You can
unland her just as easily.

She’s going to need to know that she can integrate
you into her circle of family and friends. A man
must be part of her larger life, especially after
the first few weeks of passion are over. So, make
an effort to get along with her girlfriends and
impress her parents. A woman relies on her social
network to validate her relationship choices.
Make an effort.

You should always be considerate of her feelings.
Women are less stable than guys. Part of this is
hormonal. When you are sensitive to her mood, you
won’t get on her bad side.

The final piece of advice on relationships is to be
open to trying new things. At the beginning of a
relationship, everything is new from the types of
dates you arrange to the way you kiss. But, after
a while, these things become routine. If you find
that your relationship has fallen into a rut, shake
things up. Try something new. It will go a long
way to keeping your relationship healthy.

So, there are ten bits of advice on relationships to
keep your dating life strong. Look you guys, these
things are common sense and the fact is I almost
drove my sweetheart out of my life because I didn't
pay attention to what I was doing. There is a book
that woke me up called "The Magic Of Making Up".
I read it and began applying his common sense
suggestions, our love life turned around. Not only
that all of my personal relationships, with friends,
co-workers and my family have become much smother
than they were before.

You might want to check out
"The Magic of Making Up" yourself.

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