How to Get Back With My Ex Girlfriend

If you are wondering how you can get
back with your ex girlfriend, the first
thing that you need to understand is
that this is a very delicate situation.
Your feelings may be hurt, and her
feelings may also be hurt - And it is
important that you are careful about
what you're doing accordingly, otherwise
feelings may be hurt even worse.

Here are the considerations that you
need to make when it comes to figuring
out how to get back with your ex girlfriend.

1 - First and foremost, what was it that
you did in order to cause the break up?
Girls do not break up with guys completely
out of the blue, so there is probably a
really good reason behind the action even
if you are not immediately aware of what
it is. The first step in this process has
to be to figure out what went wrong, whether
or not it could have been prevented, and how
can you can fix it now that you know what it is.

2 - If the break up with your ex girlfriend
was entirely your fault, then the first thing
that you need to do to help rekindle things
is to let your ex girlfriend know that you
recognize what happened, you recognize that
it was your fault, and that you are sorry
for your actions and the unintended consequences.

3 - You should continue to socialize with
other people, even though you are trying
to court your ex again. Just because you
and your ex are not in contact right now,
that does not mean that you need to cut
yourself off from the rest of the world.
You should date another girl, or at least
go out and have some fun with your friends.
It may even work to your advantage for you
to cause some jealousy in your ex partner
if you really do want to get them back.

4 - Show your ex that you have moved on, but
you also need to show her that you still care
about her. This is the most ideal way to
eventually get her back. Let her know that
you have not completely moved on, and that you
still have feelings for her, and this will
make you appear more mature to her, and more
desirable as well.

5 - Finally, it is important that you work
hard to become friends with your ex again.
This will build trust, and will help to make
you closer to one another.

Afterwards, you should ask her why you broke
up in the first place, but be casual about
it rather than appearing desperate. She will
either admit that it was a mistake that the
two of you broke up, or she will let you know
that the break up was for the better. Once
you have an answer, you can proceed from there.

These are just the beginning steps in winning
your Ex back.