Wednesday, December 10, 2008

How to Get My Ex Back When He's Moved On

Have you lost your boyfriend, and are now
asking for help on "how to get my ex back
when he's moved on'? Don't bother moping,
because what you have lost does not mean
you have lost it forever. Here are some
quick and simple tips for learning how to
get your ex back even if he has moved on to
another woman and no longer appears to be
interested in associating with you.

1 - The first step to getting the man of
your dreams back is finding a way to convince
him that he still wants you. Unless he really,
really does not want anything to do with you,
then there are a number of options that you
can employ from this point on.

2 - One of the most advantageous things that
you can do is simply to be his friend. Make a
really good friend to him, showing him that
you understand him and that you can be around
him without creating any drama. Show him that
you can joke around with him and have a healthy
friendship with him. When the drama and stress
of the relationship and breakup have subsided,
he may realize that he wants you again.

3 - When you communicate with your ex boyfriend,
be sweet and kind to him but don't be afraid to
have a little bit of attitude. You are going to
want him to want you, but you're also going to
want to give him the feeling that he cannot have
you just yet. While playing games is not the best
way to go, you do not want give an air of hard to
get, making him more interested in the process.

4 - You should be playing a little bit hard to
get,but you also want to make sure that he knows
you are available. You shouldn't completely rule
out the concept of flirting and hanging out with
friends, because drumming up a little bit of
jealousy never hurt anyone -But it is important
that you play it safe because if he doesn't think
you are available, he probably will not find the
motivation to pursue you.

5 - Avoid acting desperate at all costs. If
you act desperate, your ex boyfriend will under
estimate you. You are going to want to play
things cool, letting him know that you are okay
with everything that has happened, and that you
are willing to move on. If you act desperate,
things won't work out the way you are intending
them to,so avoid doing this at all costs.

6 - Any time that you know he is looking at you,
or if you feel like he is looking at you, look at
him out of the corner of your eye. This sidelong
glance will let him know that you are paying
attention to him, but in a mysterious "you can't
have me" kind of way.

7 - Casually remind him of some of the best times
that you have had together. These good memories
will help him to remember how good the two of you
used to be together. Don't bring up any bad
memories, because it will only hurt his bad side
which will not do you any good.

As you can tell these are simple and down to earth
suggestions which will provide just a few of the
steps for learning "how to get my ex back when
he's moved on. Once again follow your heart but
use your brain to discover other steps which
could be effective.


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