Best Seller Books On Relationships May Make A Fool Of You

If your ex has just broken up with you, you
may be in the marketplace for books on
relationships. But how do you choose the best
books on relationships among the many
offerings out there?

In this article, I will show you how to choose
the best books on relationships. And the
answer will surprise you. Read on…

First, don’t be fooled by fancy letters after a
author’s name. There are many people who find
school to be a convenient escape from real life.
Instead of engaging with people, they spend
their time in the classroom and library. As a
result, they end up with a lot of letters after
their names when they hit age 35. They use
their degrees to indicate that they have
“expert knowledge” of a situation. But does
their expertise work in the real world?

Instead, you should look for books on
relationships by authors who have been in the
trenches. They’ve either put a bad relationship
back together themselves or they have helped
countless buddies do the same. These aren’t
therapy patients that come in for the “fifty
minute hour” either. These relationships are
those of people the author cares deeply about.

Next, you want to find books that don’t boil
down to “put the relationship aside for 30 days
and work on yourself during that period.”
This is all most “save your relationship” or
“get your ex back” reports say. Many of the
ebooks on the market turn that concept into 50
page documents. These are just pieces of fluff
and don’t deserve your attention – or your money.

Instead, you should look for a book that will
give you new information; information that you’re friends can’t give you.

For instance, will the book tell you what
women crave the most? Will it give you a
step by step guide for how to give it to her?
Will the book show you how to recover from an
affair? Will it give you specific techniques
to get relief from your pain?

Finally, look at who is recommending the book.
Do the testimonials seem a little generic?
Were they written by the author’s brother
and second cousin?

You want to find books on relationships that
come recommended by a wide variety of people,
in various situations, from all walks of life.
If it looks like both a guy from England and
a newly engaged woman from Kansas have used
the book, chances are it will work for you.

There are many books on relationships on the
market. Unfortunately, most of them are drivel
because they weren’t written by someone in the
trenches. As a result, they have generic
advice that could be best summed up in a
paragraph or two. Then, what recommendations
the book can get are generic in nature,
the book really has nothing going for it.

Finding the best books on relationships can
take a little work. But, everything about
relationships are work. Shouldn’t you
invest the time and money in the very best
book out them?