Friday, December 5, 2008

Heartbroken Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back

If you’ve just been through a breakup, you’re
probably wondering, ‘Can I get my ex boyfriend
back?” at least several times a day. Every
relationship is different, so every break up is
different. But there are some things you can do
to help get him back.

Be nice.

That might go without saying, but some people
think nagging is the best way to get what they
want. It’s not. If you nag, complain or act
unpleasant, you’re just reminding him of things
he wants to get away from. If you make things
uncomfortable every time you see him, he’ll only
want to see you less and less.

The last thing you want to do is drive him farther
away. Be as pleasant as you can whenever you’re
around him, unless the only way to do so is to be
absolutely fake.

If you’re wondering, can I get my ex boy friend
back by pretending to be this way or that way?
Then you have to wonder why you want to be back
with him anyway. You might be better off finding
someone who doesn’t make you need to pretend.

If you can be pleasant, then whatever problems
you had before the breakup probably don’t seem
nearly as important now. You might find yourself
wondering why you weren’t more pleasant when you
were together.

You can’t change the past, but do remember that
later when you’re back together. Point it out
to him, and let him know that you did take him
for granted. He probably took you for granted too,
but don’t expect him to admit it now.

Some other things you might be thinking of trying
could either be disastrous or they could work in
your favor.

Can I get my ex boyfriend back if he has a
girlfriend?

This is probably the hardest situation to overcome.
Not only is it difficult to be alone with him if he
has someone else, he’s focused on the new relationship.
You’re part of the past, and not a priority. Being
nice right now is crucial. You have to make him see
how wonderful you are and how much he’s missing.

Can I get my ex boyfriend back by trickery?

No matter what kind of deception you’re thinking of,
even if it doesn’t seem harmful—forget it now.
Even the most innocent-seeming lie or exaggeration
could backfire later. What’s the point of figuring
out how to get him back only to lose him a little
while later because he finds out about your dishonesty?

Can I get my ex boyfriend back by making him jealous?

It’s possible, but it could also backfire and make him
think you’ve moved on. If you really feel the need to
date, then do so if you need that to be happy.

But if you’re considering going out with someone just
to make your ex jealous, that’s not really fair to your
date, or you. Games like this usually don’t work. Be
honest with yourself and others, and you stand a better
chance of getting back together with your ex.

These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex
back. They are the initial steps, And frankly these aren't
my original ideas. I learned by reading books and came
across one called the Magic of Making Up. It truly helps
and teaches how to get your true love back. Man or Woman.

Magic of Making Up has a simple, down to earth step by step
plan And you know, it worked like magic for many.

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